For guy, this is damn challenging! Learning how to talk to girls- rewarding skill u can acquire during ur lifetime.
Macam biasa je dengan issue ni Muahahaha.
Well, it is very true this one of the most neglected aspects when it comes to relationship. Communicate. He knows he should communicate but he doesn’t know how.
To be fair, we women sometimes fail to justify what we want him to do, say etc. We just don’t know or don’t say but expecting for miracle to happen. Hehe selalu buat ni..
She says ‘Saje nak test , tengok dia tau ke tak’.
One of the biggest issues among men that are struggling with women is that they “Just don’t know what to talk about!”.
She says ‘Memang la tak tau, tak pernah nak ambil tahu’.
When this happens, women will often think: “We just don’t connect” and it’s at that point that the date goes downhill.
Actually, that’s probably one of the biggest fear that men have and it’s the reason why a lot of guys won’t even go start a conversation!
Makhluk Allah nan satu ini, selalu tak dapat nak figure out the “ideal topic of conversation” beforehand. As if, if you were to introduce this ideal topic, you would both have a wonderful time talking about it for hours and hours and eventually the woman would fall in love with you, just because you had the right topic of conversation.
She says ‘Cerita pasal makeup boleh? Shopping ke?’
Ha dah lelaki plak rase women ni alien cakap pasal ape2 ntah.
Sound silly? That’s because it is. Yet people STILL try to find that ideal conversation topic!
So ape patut kite borak-borakkan sebenarnye.
So just start off with any conversation topic. Usually bad ones will do, and as the conversation progresses, you can steer the conversation to any topics you wish to discuss.
He says ‘OK, but what do I talk about?’ Ok kadang2 diorg ni langsi jugak. (wah lantakla ini blog untuk pompuan kalo ade lelaki bace tu nasib la ye nok!)
It’s really hard to be relevant to each and every people dalam dunia ni, sebab walaupun lelaki ade jugak la yang suka cite pasal shopping ke baju ke.. tak caye tengok White Chick. And ada jugak perempuan yang boleh bercerita pasal sports.
Yaya says ‘Apehal yang, ManU kalah je ni.. cepat bayar duit betting’
Selain dr isu lelaki ni tak pandai nak berconversation, cuba kite pulak give him space. Sekali sekala allow him to talk about his passion, sekali sekala diulangi
It will sub-consciously convey values of self-worth and confidence which are both attractive. Kalo asyik nak banned je ape die cakap, sian die. Nak buat camane die mmg suka tengok bola yang bersiaran langsung pagi2 buta tu, layan kan je sekali sekala ok.
The next thing you wonder how to talk to girls, just keep in mind that conversations are like fire, they need to be slowly started with little light pieces before you can move on to the heavy stuff! Good luck..
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