Hari Raya Aidiladha

Nah, Amir pada Hari Raya Aidiladha tahun ini...

Sehari sebelum AidilAdha, ada majlis hari jadi. Amir's cousins - Amilia and Adam

By right, Amilia's birthday is tommorow - 111111 and she turns 1. Nice.

They were born in the same year, 2010.

Hot momma - mother of two.

Amir's passion - ball!

The family.

Selesai majlis kat Kajang, terus shoot balik Kuala Pilah.

Bawak Amir tengok acara Korban. Mommy yang takut huhu..

Gambar raya terbaik. Last raya, bukan main susah nak ambil gambar budak kecik ni. Mommy declare ni Kodak moment Amir. Muka kamu sangat innocent.

BFF

Body to die for!

Last Hari Raya Aidiladha

Mommy baru je lepas habis pantang, a week before start keje..


Mari kita tengok macam mana rupa Amir masa tu...

Hmmmphh. Marah kat sapa?

Alololo bam-bam anak bujang mommy

Camana rupa Amir Hari Raya Haji tahun ni, next week kita tengok... ;p

Alololo mommy dia pun tembam boleh tahan jugek...

Pffft.

Cepatnya masa berlalu, mommy miss Amir kecik!



2010-2011 Annual Report

AMIR HIDAYAT SYAH

From 12th September 2010 To 31st October 2011

EXECUTIVE SUMMARY
This annual report records comprehensive detail of Amir’s activities throughout the previous year. This report is planned to give stakeholders (parent) and other interested people information about his development performance and activities. However this annual report will not discuss about profits and loses precisely throughout previous year, like Amir once broke baba's perfume bottle just few weeks after he bought it or he played with car signal and high beam until the integrated electronic circuit damaged - no radio and no light. But you are priceless anyway, so we don't care!! :) Read this letter if you don't trust me.

It is our hope to determine positive and potential steps with successful decisions to raise a healthy and happy Amir in the coming years.

MESSAGE FROM OUR CHAIRMAN

A careful man I want to be,
A little fellow follows me;
I do not dare to go astray
For fear he'll go the self-same way.
I cannot once escape his eyes.
Whate'ver he sees me do he tries.
Like ME he says he's going to be--
That little chap who follows me.
I must remember as I go
Through summer suns and winter snows,
I am building for the years to be--
That little chap who follows me

 THE EXECUTIVE COUNCIL

GROWTH

Growth Chart from 0 to 13 months

Growth Chart for The Most Recent

Head Circumference for Age Percentile Chart

Out of a sample of 100 babies, a percentile value of 55 percent means Amir has a head circumference greater than 55 babies and measures less than the other 45 babies.

  

Weight for Age Percentile Chart

Out of a sample of 100 babies, a percentile value of 5 percent means Amir weighs more than 5 babies and weighs less than the other 95 babies.

  

Length for Age Percentile Chart

Out of a sample of 100 babies, a percentile value of 57 percent means Amir measures more than 57 babies and measures less than the other 43 babies.

 

DEVELOPMENT

1st Quarter

• Lifts head when lying on tummy
• Responds to sound
• Stares at faces
• Smiles, laughs
• Vocalizes: gurgles and coos
• Notices his hands
• Holds head up for short periods since 2 months
• Can bear weight on legs
• Recognizes mommy's face and scent at 3 months
• Blows bubbles
• Rolls over, from tummy to back
• Coos when we talk to him 

Special Highlights:

• Prolonged Jaundice until 30th days of life and admitted to hospital twice with a very high reading of bilirubin, 300.
• An inconsolable high-pitched crying as what we defined as colic which happened in the first 3 months.
• Refused to be bottle-fed.
• For more details on Amir's first month, click here and here for his monthly KPI report.

2nd Quarter

• Can grasp a toy
• Imitates sounds: "baba," "dada"
• Plays with his hands and feet
• Sits momentarily without support at 5 months
• Separation anxiety started at 4 months
• Turns toward sounds and voices
• More than ready for solid foods; started at 4 months
• Lunges forward

Special Highlights:

• Amir is so much like a clingy baby.  He shrieks when I put him down and started to walk away.

 
3rd Quarter

• Sits without support
• Bangs objects together
• No sign to start crawling
• Cuts first tooth at 8 months
• Recognizes own name
• Starts to experience stranger anxiety
• Passes objects from hand to hand
• Stands while holding onto something
• Picks things up with thumb-finger pincer grasp
• Cruises while holding onto furniture 
• Good hands and legs coordination; he can throw ball and kick with support

 
Special Highlights:

• Falling off from bed at 8 months old
• Peak of clingy-ness at 9 months, he understood that mommy is going to leave him alone.
• He came into 'hatching' process when he turned one year.
• Know how to shoot a ball into basket and play football

 
4th Quarter

• Waves goodbye
• Starts crawling
• Points at objects
• Indicates wants with gestures
• Understands "no" and simple instructions
• Says one word besides "mama" or "dada"
• Crawls well, with belly off the ground when he nearly turned one year
• Stands alone for a couple of seconds at 13 months of age
• Takes a few steps 
• Has temper tantrums when frustrated

Special Highlights:

• He'll shows us "no" sign if he's going to do something  that he knows we won't allow him to do.
• Shout at anyone who stopped him from doing things.
• First time Amir throws his tantrums in public at One Utama.
• First words: baba, dird (bird), cat, dog, car, abang, kakak, shoes, wa (nenek), duck, bus, bob bob (sponge bob) and any other word we say to him EXCEPT for 'mommy'. Thanks, Amir!
• Really likes imitate people coughing, sneezing and yelling

THANK YOU

APESAL. ?

Hari Sabtu lepas, ada Angkatan Pemuda Futsal (APESAL) Tournament. Ni untuk Alumni Sek Men Sains Kuala Selangor (KUSESS).

Batch Ami merupakan pioneer di KUSESS atau dengan erti kata lain team paling 'tua' pada hari tersebut.


First game, lawan dengan budak-budak SPM 2009. Beza 9 tahun tuuu.... Boleh ke bang?

Jyeah! Ternyata abang senior lebih skilfull, team abg senior menang 3-1

Abang ni hampir2 nak buat hat-trick, apekan daya masa dah tamat.

Sekarang...

 8 tahun yang lepas, juga ketika teman Ami main Futsal Tournament

Insya Allah, kalau panjang umur, tahun-tahun lain saya teman lagi ye.

Bukan saya sahaja, budak kecik ni pun akan bagi semangat masa Baba main.. Anyway, satu tips nak mengelakkan tantrum dan diyakini berkesan....

Biar je dia buat apa dia nak buat!

Kotor sikit tak pelah, janji Amir enjoy. Lepas tu sental aje lah dengan Dettol.

Start young!

Tapi Amir dah faham sekarang kalau mommy and baba say 'No', mula-mula dia mengamuk la beberapa ketika lepas tu if we still say 'No', terus cembeng datang dekat mommy. Hehehe. Boy mommy ni :)

Blissful holiday and Amir's temper

Ah, seronoknya kalau setiap hari Rabu cuti!!!

Kalau cuti, memang wajib tak lekat dengan rumah. Otak ligat berfikir, apa alasan nak bagi pada husband nak ajak jalan-jalan ni.... Hmmmmmm...


TING!!!!

'Jom beli baju tidur Amir dekat Jusco OU, sebab lepas dia renovate tu kita belum pergi visit dia lagi'

Tapi, memang betul pun babysitter Amir kata bawak baju malam lebih sikit, dan dah dipulangkannya baju Amir yang dah kecik2 ;p


So ke One Utama lah kami, sambil jumpa kawan-kawan yang kebetulan secara terancang pun jalan-jalan kat One U. Yang tak berapa blissful ialah, 1/2 jam dari simpang LDP ke traffic light nak U-turn masuk parking, DAN lagi 1/2 jam untuk dapatkan parking.


TIPS: Untuk mendapatkan parking during peak hours di One Utama adalah:

1) Suruh passenger anda cop parking kalau ada 10 buah kereta di hadapan anda

2) Parking dekat One World Hotel. Mudah dan pantas.


Lamanya tak pergi jalan-jalan kat One U. Used to have lunch here almost everyday.

Friends back in Uni.

Okay, cerita pasal Amir sikit.. Ok, mommy tau Amir dah besar. Dah tak nak kene pegang. Nak lepas je, senang nak pergi tempat merbahaya kan? Masalahnya dia tak nak jalan, dia nak merangkak laju-laju. So camana nak lepaskan?

I'm a happy cheeky boy if you let me go on my own, mommy!

Fine. Tapi bila dah selesai urusan kat situ, terpaksa lah carry him nak ke tempat lain pulak.

Here we go....

The moment of whining and crying to screaming, kicking, hitting! Tergeliat tangan mak nak pegang Amir. Actually, itu lah first time Amir  throws his tantrums in public. Lama pulak tu. Macam-macam dah cuba untuk distract dia. Berhenti temper untuk beberapa saat then mula balik. To be honest, I pun suspend nak handle dia semalam. Dengan orang sekeliling pandang. Bukan malu, for better or worse, Amir kan anak mommy, tapi pandangan diorang tu membuatkan kita lagi nervous.

Mula-mula, he rejected bf, dok sibuk nak menangis. Lama-lama nak jugak, eleh merajuk la konon.. ;p Lepas bagi 'ubat' baru lah dia okay, tersengih-sengih nengok Acik Intan

Kiss baby!

Tak dapek mommy nak burak-burak mo Acik ko la.. huhu


Malamnya pulak, Uncle Qad belanja makan Pizza Hut. Saja ambil seat hujung sekali so enough space for Amir to crawl. Yes, crawl! Mesti orang tengok pelik lah mak budak ni dibiarnya main atas lantai, tak nak melalui proses masa kat One U tadi.

Hypothesis is accepted : kalau dibiarkan lepas, bagi apa yang dia nak buat. He's one happy kid!

Alah, sayang mommy ni. Bukan mommy mengeluh Amir lasak and temper. Takde masalah kalau Amir lasak, sebab mommy and baba pun lasak jugek ;)  Cuma ada masa, badan dah penat, fikiran tengah runsing ke, risau Amir kutip benda2 kotor masuk mulut, takut Amir jatuh kalau Amir main panjat2, sebab tu lah mommy marah. Janganlah marah mommy balik tau, nanti mommy... mommy... mommy.... Uwaaaaaaa!


Despite Amir yang lasak dan sedikit je temper, Amir memang menghiburkan. Sekarang kan Amir suka ejek balik kalau orang bercakap atau buat bunyi apa-apa. Suka ba-cak orang, walaupun masa ba-cak tu Amir kata ba-bak! instead. Kelakar bila mommy dengar ibu kata Amir membuat cubaan menyanyi lagu Sponge Bob Square Pants menggunakan kebolehan Amir bertutur bahasa 'B'. Pantang ada huruf B, senang je nak sebut. Sampai la ni tak pernah dengar Amir panggil mommy. Oh no, please jangan tukar 'm' kepada 'b'. It's okay  ;p

Bila ibu buat-buat tanya 'where's mommy?' Muka Amir cembeng sambil cari-cari mommy. Alolo so sweet. Bila mommy suruh panggil 'baba', Amir terjerit-jerit panggil baba. Mommy kata dog, Amir said 'woof woof'. Mommy kata miow, Amir kata cat. Bila tukar perkataan kepada 'mommy', Amir senyap. Pffft.

Bahagian masing-masing lah, ade anak yang dari kecil tak susah nak jaga, tak kuat menangis, tak banyak ragam. Ada yang kata, jangan cakap anak kita kuat menangis, nanti jadi kuat menangis lah dia. Hmm, takkan lah ada ibu yang saja-saja nak cakap sesuatu pasal anak yang tak pernah berlaku. Bila kita bercakap pasal anak, bukan sebab nak merungut atau berlagak, kita cuma express the feeling. Bila cakap pasal anak banyak ragam, bukan mengeluh tapi nak let out sikit rasa penat. Bila cakap pasal kebolehan anak, yg kebanyakkan budak lain pun boleh buat, bukan sebab riak etc, as a mother we're proud enough that our child is prefectly normal, we don't wait for something nobel to be proud of.
Obviously, lain budak lain lah ragam. Jangan disebabkan kita tak pernah encounter anak yang banyak ragam, kita rasa irrelevant bila ada yang kata otherwise.

I always had a chat with Ami pasal Amir, banyak unexpected dalam perihal membesarkan Amir. I was so used to handle kids since little. My youngest brother was born when I was 5. Masa darjah 1, I dah basuh poo-poo toddler and what not. Same goes to my cousin, yang lahir few years after my youngest brother. Masa I darjah 3-4, kalau dia balik kampung automatically I jadi helper ;p But I seriously enjoy doing it.

But, when it comes to own son.. hmmm, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week jaga without extra hands, fuh challenging sangat kan. Having a child is always a headache, but that will make it worth.

Nah, nilai lah sendiri...

I'll try not to make this entry lengthy

Somewhere in 2010, masa mengandung 7-8 bulan. I ada post 1 entry tidak puas hati dengan layanan seorang doctor di klinik kesihatan di lembah klang. Hehehe saja malas bagi details sangat. Isu tidak puas hati dengan service ni I think it's normal, mana-mana..tak kira kerajaan ke swasta mesti ada isu macam ni. Sebab ni semua bergantung pada individu yang memberi layanan tu kan. Dan, bukanlah satu pekara yang tidak normal bagi seseorang yang ada blog untuk share experience be it good or bad at their blog.

Namun begitu, I still ingat apa I tulis sebab I selalu baca especially bila dah setahun lebih ni pun masih ada orang comment. Lepas I post entry tu tahun lepas, majoriti yang comment share thoughts based on their experience. Again, normal lah orang complaint pasal service ni kan. And ada jugak seorang doktor yang mungkin kawan kepada doctor berkenaan (i initially put the doctor's name, few months back i removed her name), bagi pendapat dia. Honestly I welcome his opinion. He is very professional explaining things that may not clear to the patient's view. I thanked him for dropping his comment. So it makes me feel good sharing my experience, mungkin ada salah faham now you have someone to tell you what went wrong.

Beberapa bulan lepas, ada 1 comment dari anonymous, this person put a link that direct us to a photographer website, then ada lah picture doctor ni tengan posing. Fine lah, I takde ape2 judgement pun. Suka hatilah diorang nak buat ape kan. Since then, I removed nama doctor maybe orang google and found her name in my blog. It could be a mistake to put up her name, I admit. I pun bukan nak memburukkan orang so that's why i removed her name.

Last Sunday, I dapat lagi satu comment dari anonymous berbunyi:

I dont want to say much, I do not know who this people are. But as a patient who goes to a goverment clinic, I think it is obvious that you should know there are more than 400 patients per day. And it is a fact that every single patient should know that we cannot expect explanation of A-Z in a government clinic. I think generally people already know that if they want a thorough time explanation they should go to a private hospital and not expect more.
Mr R

Then I replied to Mr R, sebab I rasa banyak dia salah faham. Kalau dibaca balik entry I tu..
1) I mulakan entry dengan some sort of making disclaimer, yang entry itu bukan untuk complaint govt. clinic as a whole cuma rasa tidak puas hati kepada this particular doctor.
2) Ada jugak mentioned, ada sorang lagi doctor at the same clinic, I puas hati dengan cara dia which is better than doktor yang di sebut-sebut.
3) Dan tidak pulak I tulis dalam entry I need the doctor tu explain every single things, tapi doktor tak cakap sepatah haram pun masa tu.
4) Memang saya bersalin dekat private hospital pun.

But Mr R, keep stating the obvious. And by right, I have no problem with time-consuming process in govt clinic because I already know. Kalau I nak pergi, I pergi. Kalau I tak nak, I won't. Ok lah, lepas reply to Mr R, kira dah selesai lah kan.

Pagi-pagi ni bukak blog, ade someone or two left comments kat chatroom, yang berbunyi..

booohooo: **** you 
booohooo: don't mess with people

Ape pulak ni? Sementelah, masih ada yang comment dekat entry tidak puas hati itu, dan seingat saya itu lah entry tidak puas hati yang agak hot stuff, mungkin these people yang tulis macam ni related to that entry kot. Well, memang ini lah dia risk nya bila kita publish. I terima.
Tapi I don't know kalau these people yang tinggalkan comment-comment harsh ni adalah doctor tersebut atau kawan-kawan atau family, siapa lagi yang akan rasa sakit hati untuk kita kan? Agak memalukan lah.

Again, dalam my entry tu tidak I curse the doctor, tapi I ceritakan berapa lama I tunggu, 3.20pm baru dia masuk which patutnya clinic should starts operate 2.45pm on Friday. Bila masa ultrasound, dia takde bercakap apa-apa ambil measurement then pergi camtu je. Ni bukan mintak thorough explanation ye. Ni pasal langsung tidak bercakap apa-apa. Ok sudah sudah lah ye, ni bukan nak prolong. Tapi itulah ceritanya, rasanya memang patut tak puas hati. Honestly, entry tu langsung tidak memaki hamun, but I do agree kalau ade yang kata cynical.

Now, I bukan doktor.. tapi kerja I sendiri banyak liaise with other people. Can I stop them from feel upset or unhappy with me? No. Can I stop them from making joke about me? No. It's totally beyond our control. And kalau ada lah berlaku macam ni, is this how we respond back to them? Curse them?

Anyway, I'm not 100% sure yang tinggalkan comment tu has anything to do with that doctor ke tak. I found her on facebook, so pm her. In case ada apa kemusykilan, confront la, takde masalah dengan itu. Jangan lah membuat onar di blog kan. Kes ni dah lama sangat, I takde berdendam etc. Alah, kelakarnya kalau I berdendam kan. Mungkin jugak 3rd party yang I mistakenly ingat relate dengan this matter. Apa-apa pun, kalau kita tidak suka apa yang ada dalam blog ni, just leave. You takkan boleh control apa orang nak tulis, walaupun hakikatnya mungkin kita sorang aja benci dengan apa yang ditulis. Orang lain, okay je.. ;p

Since ade blog, first time kene ambush ;p I dah removed pun entry tu, her name memang awal-awal dah removed. I tidak sebarkan pulak link studio photoshoot doktor, so I rasa kurang profesional lah untuk bertindak sedemikian.

Senang cerita macam ni, semua orang pun akan ada satu masa dia menjadi annoying kepada seorang yang lain. Seorang yang lain tu, satu masa dia juga annoying kepada orang lain. Kita semua pun pernah jadi annoying kepada sekurang-kurangnya 1 orang yang lain. Bear with it, especially dengan dunia cyber sekarang, fb, twitter, tell me macam mana nak control supaya orang tulis apa yang kita suka sahaja?


Peace. No war.


p/s: Macam mana lah prime minister handle case blog yang mengutuk diorang terang-terangan, memang cool kalau boleh pekak kan telinga, buta kan mata dari ambil tahu apa orang bercakap pasal kita.

Just curious..

Bila Amir masuk je 1 tahun, I noticed few things.. Dia dah banyak faham his surrounding, yg ni I think normal lah kan. Dia dah pandai tunjuk apa dia nak. Ok, senang sikit. Cuma kadang-kadang still tak faham apa dia nak ;p

Tapi, sedikit merisaukan bila dia tak dapat apa dia nak. Contoh, dia nampak playground tapi tak bawak dia pergi atau dah bawak dia main sekejap then a while later we have to leave.. Nanti dia start mengamuk, meraung-raung.. Suaranya kan memang kuat, sambil lembik-lembik kan badan atau keraskan badan meronta-ronta. Adakah normal diorg ni dah start buat mcm ni. Spoke to one of my friend, dia kata anak dia pun mcm tu.

Well, dia mengamuk taklah lama tapi kalau mcm harini banyak kali jugak mengamuk sebab I pun xtau dia nak apa, asyik salah teka.. Very tiring :(

Does this happens to you? What you usually do?


Regards,
Mommy Amir yg dah pancit


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